Tuesday, December 05, 2006

The Nap

Because the question has been raised, I expect to be taking a sabbatical from the blog.  It's worked pretty well for youth ministry, with me growing and seeing the whole world differently.

right now it makes to most sense to focus on some private journaling and personal growth.  As with youth ministry, I'll re-evaluate this decision in a few months.  For now though Tom Time will be taking a nap.


Saturday, November 25, 2006



I've been playing a game called Evil Genius on and off for the past couple of years (mostly off).  It's a humorous game where you are an evil genius, making a secret island and wreaking havoc while spies like 007 try to infiltrate and sabotage everything you do.  Through everything you do there is a notoriety meter with each act of villainy you perform adding "heat" and making you more notorious.  Right now I believe I'm vomitous.

In the real world it appears that my own heat level has recently picked up a bit.  I don't know which posts are really doing it, but lately my own heat level has apparently spiked.  This doesn't end up being such a good thing in the real world like it is in the virtual one. 

As with anything that's written down, it can easily be misunderstood or taken out of context.  This can lead to questions arising due to the integrity of the writer. 

It is an interesting revelation that an individual's integrity is always up for re-evaluation, no matter how long you have known that person.  There will be times at church where I may wonder about someone's motives even after I've known them for 4 years or more.  Even friendships and family can fall into this trap.  I wonder if we really can ever be trusted completely.  I sure hope not everyone is looking to question the integrity of everyone else; it's a hard life not trusting others.

In Evil Genius if you want to lower your heat level you stop doing things that will get noticed.

Recently I've begun to follow this plan of action.  The questions weigh too importantly on my life to let them continue.  It's too hard to write for multiple audiences and assume it will not be misinterpreted.  Even with an editor, I know how misunderstandings have occurred.

Here's my question to you all.  Do you really appreciate what's been written in this blog?  Would you like to read more, or would your life be unchanged if I stopped writing?

I ask for feedback other times but I would really, really appreciate you feedback this time.


Monday, November 20, 2006

The Beauty of the Internet

ReamsDays like this really make me really appreciate the power of the Internet.  I had some late night printouts to make at work after putting my daughter to bed.  Once I finished up the work I was able to print directly to our printers in the office.  As I drove on in the printers were spitting everything out for my meeting. After a bit of photocopying I was all set.

10 years ago this would have actually meant I had to drive into the office to do the work and get the printouts.

Sometimes it amazes me to recognize that the Internet has a lot of power far above and beyond simply shopping and research.

I wonder what else is out there in the world that can be used for some other purpose than it was designed.


Comfort Food

Comfort FoodToday began decently and ended up quite crappy.  It's kind of amazing how one conversation and change the day.

So it only made sense that tonight should be a night of comfort food.  Something to just curl up with and relax.  I hadn't realized it until tonight (it's been a long time since I've really had a crappy day) but apparently my comfort food is an almond steamer (steamed milk with an almond shot).  It'll warm you from head to toe on a cold night and loosen up a tight heart.

How about you?  What do you indulge in on those days that just fall to pieces?


Friday, November 17, 2006

The Importance of Foreign Language

Foreign Language SignIt has taken me 31 years to finally understand why learning a foreign language in school is important.  Yes, my 10 years of Spanish should have made it so I can talk intelligently to my Spanish speaking neighbors, but unfortunately, that's not the case.  Today Erin showed me the true importance of learning a language.

She has been looking for help using Crystal Reports as it integrates with Microsoft Visual Studio.  Every time she would go to the help it would have an error that the page was not found. 

What's her solution (something I would never have thought of)?  Try the French version which she learned in school.  Sure enough, it worked (thankfully the code snippets are in English)!

The next time someone asks me why the heck they need to take Spanish/French/German/Japanese/Russian etc. I now have an answer.  Study that language long and hard, you never know when the help you need is only available in your second language.


Tuesday, November 14, 2006

Virginia Theological Seminary Visit

Virginia Theological Seminary

Today I went on a tour of Virginia Theological Seminary. I tell you, this school has it together. The program is so centered around the student, community and a close-knit with faculty that it’s almost impossible to fail. I think a lot about community and ho incredibly important it is in spiritual formation and acceptance. While I am so committed to community I also think it’s hard to find a way to couple a “fun community” with a deep relationship and solid learning. Moving from simply joining in to actually taking part and giving back. VTS seems to really have that together.

Even the day visit was really well planned and executed.  We each had one tour guide (I ended up with two actually).  The morning prayer, class selections, small group organization and lunch (yes, even lunch) was all executed superbly.  I have never been on a better college visit and, if I could go right now, I'd be a VTS student.

As a side note.  At lunch I met a priest from Liverpool England who was doing a 4 week tour of different places to help support the Episcopal church and to see how others are accomplishing mission.  Colin was a really great and interesting person.  I am so blessed to have been able to share lunch with him, to the point where I was late to my next session.  It was entirely worth it and I do hope God calls Colin to become the arch-deacon in Wales and really gets to fulfill his dream of leading people in life-changing missions.  He's certainly in my prayers.


Thursday, November 09, 2006

Focusing on Failure

Failure: Success Doesn't Come CheapLast week we had a mid-term in my Old Testament class which I was positive I got 4 questions wrong and possibly as many as 7.  On a 50 question test that's a pretty big deal.  What's interesting is that over the week since that test all I can think about are those questions I know I missed.  I sure will never forget what the Decalogue is (10 commandments).

While I've been focusing on these questions I got wrong (the last third of the Old Testament is called the Writings btw) I've pretty much ignored and forgotten the questions I answered correctly.  Who was Adam again?  He really had a wife named Eve?  Okay, not that badly.

Recognizing this last night in class made me realize that I, and many people, are driven and expected to constantly improve.  It's not enough to do well at something since you can always be doing better.

I've always considered improvement being the recognition and correction of failings.  For example, every time I jump off the roof of our house I fall straight down and hurt myself.  To improve I need to recognize this failing and better learn how to fly (or recognize that I can't fly on my own and should seek mental help - too bad I'm not Peter Petrelli from Heroes).

The problem with focusing on failure is that I tend to let that bring me down.  I see how I may have messed up one section of a project, and really let that envelop me.  I try to do everything I can to fix it immediately and to never let it happen again.  I begin thinking I'm not really so great at this and could even feel like I don't belong.  In reality it was one mistake that most people didn't even notice, and they have been impressed with all of the work I have done.

Here is one place I really struggle to make a balance.  It's easy to let my failings get the better of me.  It's also easy for me to focus on how good I am at some things and let pride take over.

In any case I got the mid-term back with a 48 out of 50.  Also, that two page report I did two weeks ago.  The one I forgot about until the night before and got the books the morning it was due?  30 out of 30!  Thank goodness.  Maybe I can write.


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